Philippians 2:3-4 "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others."(NIV)
"When you touch your husband's deepest need something good almost always happens!"
~ Dr. Emerson Eggerich
Here is a great devotional from Nancy Leigh DeMoss, if you want to really focus on encouraging your husband during the Valentine season.